Happy Holiday's

From the staff here at Gorean wines - OK just me - here is hoping every one has a happy and safe Holiday Season.    Free or slave or something in between I'm happy to call many of you friends.   Looking forward to the coming year.

Toys of the trade

These are a few of the toys of the trade I have.  In the case of a pony or for pet play I've the cuffs, the collar, a bit with blinders, crops and a buggy whip, a nice mitten for sensations.  A soft chew toy for the puppy to play keep away with.

Here is a close up of the pony bit I have.  Sadly it's never been used, I've never found a submissive interested in that play.  Although I do have a fun little story behind how I picked it up.

I don't even remember her name but we were out wandering the little funky shops and boutiques that are always found in the hipper parts of a city.  We were laughing, chatting....and then she saw that.

"oh that would be so humiliating" she said with eyes big with desire.

Of course I bought it right then and there.   Sadly we never went out again...perhaps she feared what I was capable of with it?  One can hope that was the case.

One thing that I have used, although it does not quality for pet and pony play is my little dissection kit.  With it's sharp scalpel and hooks, designed for cutting and poking and holding things in place.

I don't cut.  I don't believe in blood play.  However a bit of fear now and again is a wondrous thing.   To have her in your control....

There are other toys not featured here.  My floggers, ranging from soft rope to harsh rubber.   Simple items found in everyday places (often called pervert-able's) like mousetraps and clothespins.  The everyday wooden spoon, chopsticks and needles.  My knives, still shiny and sharp.  Each designed for one thing, then does something else. 

Still more toys sit in my bag, collecting dust.   It's not that I wish to give up on BDSM play...I made a choice to do so when my longtime girlfriend/sub was unable to reach her headspace due to an ongoing medical condition.  

I love her still...and thank the Gods that she knows I need Second Life and other programs to "get my jollies" while still being true and faithful to her.  It is not the best situation, but it works for us.   I also know that the best scene in any BDSM relationship is where both parties are in their mutual "headspace" and everything else just melts away.  Is this possible to obtain with a 3 inch tall collection of pixels?  

Yes!

I do think however we need to remember what is possible in reality and strive towards that.  

  

I have to be honest.   I was not sure if I was going to post this or not.  Generally I try to keep my BDSM/Gorean life separate from my work and everyday life.   I believe in the principles of Gor, I try to live them everyday...but my employers don't need to know about it.

If someone asks, I answer truthfully.  A few have.  It has not cost me a job, but at the same time I don't advertise my kinks either.

However a friend of mine does need help.  I know what it's like to have an animal in pain and not be able to help them due to money. 

I owned a cat named Breezewood for years, he suffered unduly because I didn't have the money to get him the care he needed or to end his suffering.  So even if you can give just a dollar, it will help someone else not regret giving their animal what they needed.

That's Breeze there, not a greet pic but one of the few I have in the PC.  Great memories however of him purring away.   Towards the end he couldn't even move.   If a dollar helps someone else's pet not suffer, then I'll do what I can to help them out.


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Learning pony play

Lately I've been exploring ponyplay.  In a nutshell the submissive takes on the character of an animal.   They may not speak, but must act like that animal.  So for example, if she is a pony she must stomp her foot, whinny, snort and otherwise be the animal.  She is not human anymore, and as such not treated like a human.

Now for the record.  This has nothing to do with Bestiality and frankly I find that sort of behavior a bit sickening.

simple pony gear

Depending on the pony and the trainer the outfits can be simple.  A simple gag to silence her, handcuffs to prevent the use of the hands and then a collar and leash to guide her.   A crack of the whip to move her about or a crisp smack on the flank with a riding crop.

Plumes and headgear can be added.  Every pony needs a tail to swish back and forth and these are easy enough to make or buy.   Some fit into the anus, others to a belt around the gut.  Harness and hooves can be added, and again the hooves can be simply made at home.

Years ago when I first became interested in pursuing a BDSM lifestyle, one of my first interests was pony play.   I found the woman beautiful.  Pony play requires the ass to be firm (I love a firm ass).  The legs to be shapely; as they are given a workout going through prancing and stepping routines (I love a shapely leg).

Sadly however this type of play does not seem very popular.  I can literally count the number of animal role players I've met in real life on one hand, and because of that I never really explored it.

extreme pony gear

That's the beauty of Second Life and other programs.   I can get my "Dom" on, read about and actually practice what I'm learning.  This type of play translates easily into the real world, the dressage practices and other events are taken directly from the training of real animals in the real world.  Modified of course for the human animal.  As I strive for "reality" - what ever that is - this form of play strikes me as being "pure."

As a Dom I'm enjoying the bondage parts of it, I may barely be able to tie my shoes but I can slip her into a leather harness and apply the tail easily enough in either world.   As she prances about I'm able to work with her, training her to place her leg just so...to lead her about, to have her place her body into my control completely.  I've always enjoyed giving the submissive a bit of humiliation as well, and having her eat out my hand or a small bowl on the floor gives me a thrill.

Unlike a lot of BDSM, this play can be less serious as well.   Erotic as you brush her down and bath her, combing out her mane.   It's something interesting to explore and might be worth learning more about and is putting me into a different head space than I'm used to.

You can read her thoughts on this matter here:  http://anouskasthoughts.wordpress.com/2011/11/28/his-little-pony/