
Although several months ago I had the opportunity to "own" a Gorean kajira in Real Life, sadly I was not emotionally ready for such a commitment. I am also very much in love with a non-Gorean woman who, although kinky, is not a slave by any definition. Although it may be possible to have the best of both worlds, it would have taken more than all the parties involved where willing to give at that time.
I do however consider myself to be Gorean in Real Life. I believe in honor and natural philosophy, I believe that nature has designed women to be servants in a variety of ways. That does not mean I'm overtly sexist, for I've little issue with a woman being my boss or my equal or if they make more money than me. Women are capable of so much more than being just homemakers and mothers and should be able to live up to their full potential no matter what!
However nature has blessed them to be homemakers and mothers. Even in our modern busy world the so called "weaker sex" generally end up doing a majority of the housework, the cooking, the cleaning and taking of the children. We see this pattern being repeated across international boundaries, cultures and religious lines. The individual woman may be strong willed and independent, but still ends up in the kitchen at some point. It sounds harsh and sexist I'll admit, and to a certain extent it is - but think about your own experiences, and the experiences of your mothers, sisters and daughters. You may not have taught them this, but it occurs worldwide. Woman are preprogrammed in many ways to serve.
As I search for a slave, I look for that innate understanding. Submission is a gift, and not one to be taken lightly by either party. But 150 plus years ago, a slave was property. She could be separated from her family and friends and could be beaten or used at her Masters whim Because she was property, she may have hated the man that owned her but she had little recourse. In Roman times, a slave that did want to be a slave was expected to commit suicide. Again, she could be separated from her family, her children. In the Ottoman Empire, the same. Again and Again and Again throughout history this theme is repeated.

Well this is not possible in Real Life - and nor should it be - that type of relationship is possible on Second Life and similar programs. Which is one of the reasons I seek out a girl willing to play that role. A piece of property that has been bought. Will she grow to love me? Hate me? Try her best to please me all the while thinking to herself "The first chance I have to escape...." or will she simply accept her lot in life and make the best of it?
I think it's important to stress something here. Abuse is not slavery. Abusing a woman in either world is a crime and should be dealt with as such. What I'm talking about is a mutual understanding and commitment to an ideal. If we are going to role play Goreans online then we have to act as if that culture actually exists. The same applies to any SIM where slavery is an accepted part of the "virtual culture" of that SIM.
So I continue my search for the elusive unicorn. I know she is out there somewhere.
2 comments:
Thank you so much for this post. I am so hungry to belong to a man, really belong, to completly submitt and know that whatever he wishes will be my wishes too. I think that in todays world men are trained or programed by society not to want what you want. Just found your blog and joined the World of Gor on FB. I will enjoy reading!
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My Name is Ash`ira
Id like to meet your mind and let mine feel yours.
Fate will determine the rest.
Till we meet again.
I wish you well.
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